You’re Worth It

Hi everyone,

Hope everyone had a great Easter and time to relax with your family / loved ones.

During the holidays I have had time to think and I’ve decided that I’m going to look for a festival this summer that I can camp over. It’s something that I have wanted to do for a while and I have decided to go his summer, that is if there are tickets still a available. Mind you the UK weather is not a guarantee so it could be a soggy festival!

I think it is very important that we do things we enjoy. Even it it means doing them on your own. I don’t think this should stop us. I have friends who are astonished when I say that I fly out on my own to different destinations. Life is way too short to wait for someone to come with you. My fiancé works away so during the time that we can’t be together, while I miss him terribly, I will not stay at home and watch life pass me by. It’s so important to do things while we can.

I’m writing this post while I’m waiting to board a flight on my own. If anything, these days I fly on my own most of the time.

Remember, you should always put yourself first. I know it’s not always possible. When my children were younger, I put them first, as any good Mum would do, but looking back today, I wouldn’t do much different, but I would definitely make more time for myself. Putting yourself first doesn’t make you a bad person.

I lost 18 years of my life while I was raising the children. While I enjoyed every moment of it but lost myself in the process. I have since rediscovered myself and I am enjoying life more today than I have ever done. The most important lesson I have learnt is that if something happens that you’re not happy with it’s important to let people know. For example, with my fiancé, if he suggests something that I don’t agree with, I will let him know straight away, instead of worrying about it. We have a better relationship because of it.

So, just remember that it’s so important to love yourself more than anything. Nobody else will love you if you don’t love yourself. I learnt this the hard way, after ending a relationship I was in for 27 years.

So remember love yourself so others can love you too.


Hi everyone,

Thanks for joining me again today. 

I want to ask you today, what is your idea of happiness?  I was told last week at work that I look really good on Friday and that I looked happy.  I am happy, and this goes to show that if you are happy you radiate!

The definition of Happiness in the dictionary is – the feeling that comes over you when you know life is good and you can’t help but smile. It’s the opposite of sadness.

Happiness is a sense of well-being, joy, or contentment. When people are successful, or safe, or lucky, they feel happiness. Different people feel happiness for different reasons. Whenever doing something causes happiness, people usually want to do more of it. No one ever complained about feeling too much happiness.


Being happy is so much better than feeling low and sad.  Especially these days when we hear so much about mental health.  It is so important that we share any problems or our insecutities we have with our nearest and dearest or there are people we can turn to for advice if we don’t have anyone that we feel that we can turn to.

Have a look at the list below on how to be happier

Manage your stress levels

If you have a lot of stress in your life, find ways to reduce it, such as learning a few time-management techniques.

Introduce regular exercise and time to yourself. These are positive changes. Taking control of your time in this way can effectively reduce stress.

If you have feelings of anxiety along with your stress, breathing techniques can help. 

Enjoy yourself

Doing things that you enjoy is good for your emotional wellbeing.

Simple activities like watching sports with a friend, having a soak in the bath or meeting up with friends for coffee can all improve your day.

Doing something you’re good at, such as cooking or dancing, is a good way to enjoy yourself and have a sense of achievement.

Try to avoid things that seem enjoyable at the time but make you feel worse afterwards, such as drinking too much alcohol or eating junk food.

Boost your self-esteem

Self-esteem is the way you feel about yourself.

The best way to improve your self-esteem is to treat yourself as you’d treat a valued friend, in a positive but honest way.

Notice when you’re putting yourself down, such as thinking, “You’re so stupid for not getting that job”, and instead think, “Would I say that to my best friend?”. You probably wouldn’t.

Tell yourself something positive instead, such as: “You’re a bright person, you’ll get the next job”.

Limit your alcohol intake

When times are hard, it’s tempting to drink alcohol because it “numbs” painful feelings.

But it can exaggerate some feelings and make you feel angry or aggressive. It can also make you feel more depressed.

Choose a well-balanced diet

Making healthy choices about your diet can make you feel emotionally stronger. You’re doing something positive for yourself, which lifts your self-esteem.

A good diet helps your brain and body work efficiently, too.

Do some exercise

Even moderate exercise releases chemicals in your brain that lift your mood.  It can help you sleep better, have more energy and keep your heart healthy. Choose an exercise that you enjoy. If it helps, do it with a friend or listen to music.

Get enough sleep

Around 7 to 8 hours is the average amount of sleep an adult needs for their body and mind to fully rest.

Writing a “to do” list for the next day before bed can organise your thoughts and clear your mind of any distractions.

Talk and share

Communication is important, whether it’s with a friend, family member or counsellor. 

Talking things through helps you to release tension, rather than keeping it inside. It helps strengthen your relationships and connect with people.

Lots of people find talking to a counsellor about things that are troubling them very helpful.

Build your resilience

Resilience is what allows you to cope with life’s ups and downs.

Making something worthwhile out of painful times helps your resilience grow.

Starting a support group to help others, or making something creative out of bad experiences by, for example, writing, painting or singing, can help you express pain and get through hard times.

These are good ideas on making sure that you look after yourself.  Nobody else is going to do that work for you, you need to take responsability for your own well being in order that you keep a positive outlook and in the process you make yourself happy.

Have a great day and I’ll see you tomorrow.




Hi everyone,

Thanks for visiting my page.  I hope you enjoy this item, I certainly enjoyed putting it together and doing the research for it. 

Hove you found your true love or are you still looking?  Well, I think you should have a read of this article and see what you think.  

Finding the love of your life has never been so easy.

The law of attraction is the belief that “like attracts like,” and that by focusing on positive thoughts we can bring about positive results. By understanding and following this simple rule, you will be empowered to attract a lifelong partner.

There is nothing you cannot be, do, or have when you know how to activate and use this unlimited power that lies within you. Here are 10 ways to use the law of attraction to find and keep your soulmate.

  1. Be positively clear about what you want in a mate. 

Each “failed” relationship has given you clues about what you want in your ideal partner. The problem is, many women and men focus on the negative instead of the positive. For example, by saying that you don’t want a man who “puts his work before the relationship,” you are focusing on a man who puts work before love and that is the desire you are unconsciously sending out through your energy.

The good news is, if you know what you don’t want, you know what you do want. Your power to create lies in your ability to choose thoughts that are positively clear so that you can tell the universe exactly what you desire. (“I want a man who puts me first and loves me unconditionally.”)

You can tell if your affirmation is positive or negative by the way it makes you feel. If it makes you feel great, it is positive. If it makes you feel bad, it is negative. It’s that simple. If you find yourself thinking negative thoughts, simply turn them around and start focusing on the positive. You will immediately feel better and you will be in alignment with love.

  1. Continue to dream it. 

If you are ready for love, one of the best things you can do is get lost in day-dreaming about your perfect mate. As you imagine your ideal partner, the universe receives these images as indicators of what to create in your life. In your imagination, you can create and improve on your desired relationship until it meets your highest ideal.

Once you have that ideal image in your mind, replay it over and over, until one day you will find yourself actually living it. The power of your imagination is unstoppable and can transform your love life.

  1. Fall in love with yourself.

You can’t expect someone else to fall in love with you if you are not in love with yourself. When we judge or criticize ourselves, we send out an energy that repels others. Self-criticism is a negative energy that will repel potential mates.

On the other hand, self-love is attractive and attracts potential mates. Make a list of ten characteristics you love about yourself and put this list where you can see it every day. It doesn’t really matter what is on the list as long as it easily generates good feelings that you have toward yourself.

The more you focus on what you love about yourself, the more self-love you will experience. Others will fall in love with you, too, simply because it feels great to be around people who love themselves.

  1. Say no to jealousy.

It’s natural to feel jealous when we see someone experiencing something we desire and don’t have, but jealousy will actually keep love from coming to you. Jealousy is a negative emotion and will repel what you desire.

Instead of feeling jealous, understand if you are seeing someone else living your dream, your dream is getting closer. So instead of being jealous, celebrate the love you see and bless all the loving relationships you witness. In this way, you are telling the universe to bring you some of that.

  1. Don’t give up.

The number one reason the law of attraction doesn’t appear to work is that people give up before their wish is granted. It’s like ordering a delicious meal and walking out of the diner before your order arrives. The order is on its way, but if you are no longer in alignment with it, you will miss out.

When it comes to love, people get disappointed when their dates don’t meet their expectations and they don’t see evidence that true love is coming. Out of disappointment or fear of being disappointed, they give up, never knowing what they missed. The key to the law of attraction is that once you are clear you desire something specific, you must commit to it for as long as it takes to manifest in your life.

  1. Don’t give in to doubt. 

We live in an obliging universe where it is possible to experience all our dreams and desires. One of the biggest obstacles in manifesting what we desire is doubt. We want something, but we doubt that it’s possible. It is actually the doubt that keeps it from coming.

Knowing is a positive energy and opens the door for attraction. Doubt is a negative energy and closes that same door. When you are in alignment with attracting your perfect mate, there is a sense of knowing he/she is on their way.

  1. Enjoy yourself now.

Don’t wait for love to find you in order to start living. You will attract what you are: if you are a couch potato, you will attract a coach potato. If you desire a mate who is active, goes skiing and likes to read, you better start jogging, getting on the slopes and hanging out in Barnes & Noble.

Don’t wait for him/her to arrive in order to live your best life. Start living your best life right now and you will become super-attractive so that special person will be able to spot you in a crowd.

  1. Become the future you.

There is a current “single you,” and a future partnered or married you. One of the best ways to use the law of attraction to attract your perfect guy or girl is to become the person who is already in the relationship.

This is how it works: think of yourself now and think of yourself in your perfect relationship. How are you different? Who do you become once you are in the relationship? Maybe your answer is, “I become relaxed, confident, loving and kind.” Your answer is your clue to who you must become now.

Don’t wait for the relationship to manifest; you must first become the person who already has these qualities. This includes preparing your space for the partner of your dreams: Clean out your closet, empty a draw or replace that worn-out wallpaper. Think of all the ways in which you can prepare yourself and your life to be in perfect alignment with your perfect mate.

  1. Get your beliefs in order. 

Examine your beliefs about love and clean up any beliefs that don’t support attracting, having and keeping your perfect relationship (“I’m not attractive enough.” “I don’t make enough money.” “All the good ones are taken”). 

The universe has a way of making your beliefs true, so if a belief doesn’t support what you really want, it is time to drop it and develop beliefs that do. The universe responds to your feelings about yourself; if you are feeling unworthy or undeserving, the universe reflects this back.

  1. Don’t question how it will happen. 

Your job is to clearly and positively define what you most desire and to get in alignment with your desire through all the ways described above. Your job is not the how. Don’t get caught up on how it’s going to happen.

We live in a magical universe that can bring you exactly what you desire in the most amazing and even unbelievable ways. Getting caught up in the how can actually impede the law of attraction. If you are trying to control the how, you are likely getting in the way and making it more difficult than it has to be. Instead, let go of any ideas about how it has to happen and allow the universe to do its magic.

This doesn’t mean you sit home and do nothing. The difference is that you await inspired action. Inspired action is that sudden feeling you should go the coffee shop even if you are not thirsty, or you should get gas on the other side of the street.

The law of attraction communicates to you through your intuition so make sure you are listening and following those gut feelings. Most of all, be open to all possibilities — you never know how the universe will deliver.

I hope you’ll take this advice on board and start to change your life today.  It’s working for me and I’m happier now than I have ever been and I know that better things are on their way too.

Have fun and I’ll see you tomorrow …..



Tony Robbins Life Coach

Hi everyone,

I do apologise, I’ve had a busy few days and not been able to post anything on here.

Hope you had a look look at the last post and see how the Law of Attraction has affected people’s lives, even celebrities.  I find all this information fascinating.

I started to look into the Law of Attraction after listening to a man called Tony Robbins.  His life story is truly amazing and I recommend you take a read of the journey he’s been to get where he is today.  I’ll put a link at the end of this post for you to click.

He, like a few of the other, is so passionate about what he’s doing.  My favorite part is watching his live seminars on the internet and how he helps people just by talking to them for a while, it’s amazing.  Again I will post a link at the bottom for you to watch him in action.

After watching all of this information and reading a bit more into it, I hope that you will seriously consider taking up the advice and start to change your life from today.  I can certainly say that it has worked for me and as I’ve said before, it continues to work for me every day.  I can only look forward to the future because I can determine what I want to happen, isn’t that amazing!

Have a look at these clips and let me know what you think.

Have a great day and I’ll see you tomorrow.

Tony Robbins – The Official Website of Tony Robbins





Law of Attraction Testimonials

Hi everyone,

Hope you’re all having a great day.

I know I’ve mentioned Law of Attraction to you before and if you’re still not sure if this works or not, take a look at these testimonials from a few names you might recognise.

Jim Carrey 

“As far as I can tell, it’s just about letting the universe know what you want and then working towards it while letting go of how it comes to pass.”

Jim Carrey is a Canadian-American actor, comedian, screenwriter, and producer. He openly speaks about his strong belief in the Law of Attraction and how he used the Law of attraction to propel himself from rags to riches.

Jim is well known for his interview with Oprah where he explains how he used visualization techniques to become a millionaire. He spoke about how he used the power of intention and visualization (a dream check) to achieve his success in the film industry and earn his first $10 million.

Check out the interview with Oprah below.

Oprah Winfrey 

“The way you think creates reality for yourself.”

Oprah is most widely known for hosting her incredibly successful talk show, she is also an actress and philanthropist. She has spent a lot of time teaching others about the Law of Attraction and how it has changed her life.

Oprah says that the more that you celebrate and praise your life, the more that you will receive and have to celebrate. She is a fan of The Secret and has promoted the book on her television show. In the video below, Oprah explains how she used the Law of Attraction to create her own reality.

Lady Gaga 

“It’s sort of like a mantra. You repeat it to yourself every day. “Music is my life, music is my life. The fame is inside of me, I’m going to make a number one record with number one hits.” And it’s not yet, it’s a lie. You’re saying a lie over and over and over again, and then, one day the lie is true.”

Stefani Germanotta, famously known as Lady Gaga is an American singer and songwriter. In the interview below, she reveals how she used affirmations to change her beliefs and create the life she always desired.

Lady Gaga believes that we all have the ability to achieve success and that we all have a superstar inside of us that we can tap into and release. Furthermore, she has said that she uses mantras (like the quote above), to help achieve her dreams.

Arnold Schwarzenegger 

“When I was very young, I visualized myself being and having what it was I wanted. Mentally I never had any doubts about it.”

Arnold Alois Schwarzenegger is an Austrian-American actor, producer, businessman, investor, author, philanthropist, activist, politician, and former professional bodybuilder who holds both Austrian and American citizenship.

He says that you have to believe that you are going to achieve what you want, and visualize that you have it and will get it. Most noteworthy, before Arnold became famous for being a film star, he mentioned in an interview that he would be “the number one box office star in all of Hollywood” one day. This just shows the belief Arnold had and how he used the Law of Attraction to attract this into his life.

Denzel Washington 

“Positively and negatively, you attract what you feel, you attract who you are, you attract what you attract.”

Denzel Hayes Washington Jr. is an American actor, director, and producer. He has spoken about the Law of Attraction before and how he believes that we attract things with our mind.

He says that whether it’s fear or excitement, positive or negative, whatever our thoughts and feelings are focused on is what we will attract into our own lives.

Are you convinced? I am so fascinated with the Law of Attraction and the fact that you can use it to get whatever you want.  Isn’t that amazing.

I hope you enjoyed this and I hope to see you soon.



Be More Positive

Hi everyone,

Thanks for visiting my blog.  Being positive in everyday life situations can be difficult but it is worth it.  By being positive your life will get so much better.  How do you become more positive?  

Train Yourself to Be More Positive in 5 Steps

I am constantly striving to see the positive in every aspect of my life. But it’s not always easy.

However, I know that choosing to be positive has helped me the most in terms of becoming the person I want to be. Even when things are difficult, I know that being positive and striving to make the best of whatever situation I’m in, really does make even the most challenging situations easier to bear.

Here are five steps that make it so much easier to see the good in life.

Step One: Believe a Positive Attitude is a Choice

Teaching yourself that positivity is a choice, has been one of the greatest things I’ve ever done for myself.

Now when I find myself in a bad situation, I know that it’s up to me to find the good, to be positive regardless of what’s happening around me. I realise that everything and it’s up to me to choose how I want to feel about it. I am in control of my attitude, and no one can take that away from me.

Step Two: Rid Your Life of Negativity

If you want to live a positive, joyful life, you cannot be surrounded by negative people who don’t encourage your happiness. As a negative person, you’ll attract negative people.

Step Three: Look For the Positive in Life

In every person, in every situation, there is something good. Most of the time it’s not obvious. We have to look, and sometimes we have to look hard.

Everything—good and bad—is a learning experience so, at the very least, you can learn from bad experiences. However, there’s usually even more to it than that. If you really take the time to look, you will usually find something good, something genuinely positive, about every person or situation.

Step Four: Reinforce Positivity in Yourself

Once I started thinking more positively, I realised I had to reinforce these thoughts and behaviors in myself so they would stick. As with any sort of training, the more you practice, the better you get—and, yes, you can practice being positive.

The best and easiest way to do this is to be positive when it comes to who you are. Tell yourself you’re awesome. Tell yourself you look good. Tell yourself you did a great job at work or raising your kids or whatever it is you do.

Be honest with yourself, but do your best to look for the good. And, whatever you do, don’t focus on the negative. It’s okay to not like everything about yourself, but don’t focus on what you don’t like. We all have positive attributes, and it’s up to you to remind yourself of them every day.

Step Five: Share Positivity with Others

Not only do you need to be positive with yourself for this training to really take effect, but you need to be positive with others. You have to share your wealth of positivity with the world.

The best way I’ve found to do this is quite simple and basic: Be nice to other people, no matter what. Tell someone s/he looks nice today. Tell someone s/he did a great job on that presentation.

Tell your parents or children (or both!) how much you love them and how great they are. When someone is feeling down, do what you can to cheer them up. Send flowers. Write notes. Don’t gossip. Be kind to all living things.

I try not only to treat others as I would like to be treated, but I also try to consider how they would like to be treated. People appreciate positivity, and the more you share it with others, the more you are practicing it your own life.

Believe in yourself and remember the most important lesson of all: A positive outlook is a choice that you can always make.

These are five great steps that you can start using today to make your life more positive.  Let me know how you get on and what changes you see after a few days.

Good luck! See you soon …


Love Yourself First ….

Can you honestly say that you love yourself? Are you having a hard time being happy with yourself? It is so easy to focus on your faults and everyone can dwell on their insecurities instead of the things about themselves that they are happy with. Doing this can cause you to dislike yourself. You may also be too busy focusing on others around you and not focusing on loving yourself. Some people don’t want to be alone and fear to do things on their own. This can really hinder your journey to self-love, as you have to learn to be comfortable being with yourself. So, keep reading to discover how to love yourself today.

Why Is It So Important To Love Yourself?

This may seem more important to some than others, but self-love is one of the best things you can do for yourself.

Being in love with yourself provides you with self-confidence, self-worth and it will generally help you feel more positive. You may also find that it is easier for you to fall in love once you have learned to love yourself first.

If you can learn to love yourself, you will be much happier and will learn how to best take care of yourself. When you are truly in love with yourself and happy, you should stop comparing yourself to others so much and should find yourself more confident, not worrying as much about what others think.

How To Love Yourself: 15 Self-Love Tips

We are going to talk about how to love yourself and why it helps. It’s good to find the best ways for you personally to love yourself, as you will most likely learn new things about yourself and start trying new things in the process.

Some of these steps may seem scary at first, but once you have mastered the ways that work for you, you will feel so much happier and can truly say that you love yourself. Here are just 15 self-love tips you can try today to discover how to love yourself and own your confidence!

  1. Have Fun By Yourself

It’s always good to have a few days set by for yourself, that is just for you to do something fun. In doing this you can learn to enjoy your own company, and most likely feel more confident doing it on your own.

This could be, going to the cinema, going on a date with yourself or finding new things to try.

  1. Travel Once A Year

This may be completely out of your comfort zone, but that is a good thing! If you can travel on your own, this will be a great self-love experience. You will be learning new things not only about yourself but also another culture. This also helps to bring you out of your normal routine.

  1. Forgive YourselfFor Your Mistakes 

Reflecting on your mistakes can help you to forgive and forget. If you can look back at some poor choices you may have made, and forgive yourself, you can start to move on and forget about the past. Loving yourself despite any mistakes you made in the past is great for your self-worth.

  1. Surprise Yourself

Try things out of your control, and say yes to things you would not normally say yes to. This will also help you with getting to know yourself. You may find out that you enjoy things you never realized or tried before. Try and get out of your comfort zone and see what happens (it will most likely be positive!).

  1. Start a Journal

If you can write down your thoughts and feelings, you can go back at a later date and see how you coped with certain situations.

This is also a positive way for you to get rid of any negative experiences and feelings, helping you to focus on the good things and learn from the bad.

  1. Give Yourself A Break

We can be hard on ourselves sometimes, it’s natural, but you need to give yourself a break from time to time.

No one is perfect, and you can’t expect yourself to be so.

Certain things happen but you need to accept them and not be too hard on yourself.

  1. Learn How To Love Yourself By Saying No To Others

Sometimes we do too much for people, we like to please other people, so we tend to stretch ourselves too thin and commit to everything we can. We can forget to look after ourselves sometimes, so that’s why it is good to say no. Focus on yourself when you can, or if you are overwhelmed.

  1. Make A List of Your Accomplishments

Creating a list of what you have achieved is a great way to fall in love with yourself. This makes you feel good about yourself, and find happiness from what you have accomplished. We can sometimes focus on the negatives and forget about the positives, so this is a great way to remind yourself of what you have achieved.

  1. Make A Vision Board

Visualizing your goals is a good way to feel motivated and excited about your future. You can focus on your dreams and start to love your life and yourself.

If you are unsure of how to make a vision board, take a look at our guide on how to visualize.

  1. Pursue New Interests

It’s great to try something new that you have wanted to try for a while, or have been too scared to do.

You never know what you might enjoy until you try it, so think of a new hobby you could try, or go to a place you’ve wanted to go to for a while.

  1. How To Love Yourself By Challenging Yourself

If you can challenge yourself, you will also be getting to know yourself and what you are capable of. Perhaps you are a singer, who sings as a hobby but has wanted to sing at a gig for years if you can take that leap and book a gig you will challenge yourself and feel much more confident. Just go for it, and see what happens.

  1. Give Yourself A Break

Try and put aside 30 minutes of your time, to completely relax. Having a break from the chaos of life is a great way to love and care for yourself. This could be having a bubble bath, reading a book or meditating. Meditating is a great way to relax, if you want to learn how to meditate, take a look at our step by step guide.

  1. Give Yourself Credit Where Credit Is Due

Celebrate your achievements! Just like when you list your accomplishments, it’s good to actually celebrate your achievements. Tell others about what you have done, share your experience and be proud of what you have done. Give yourself the credit you deserve.

  1. Work On Your Self-Trust

A great way to show yourself self-love is to trust yourself and your own instincts.

You are most likely going to know what is best for you, and self-trust is a step to self-love.

You need to trust yourself before you can trust others, so listen to your gut and trust how you feel.

  1. Take Care Of Yourself

This one probably seems obvious, but taking care of yourself plays a big part in learning how to love yourself, and a lot of people do not do it. If you take care of yourself, you will be the best version of yourself. Take a look at our self-care ideas to get you started.

You can use the Law Of Attraction to start to work towards the life that you want to live, which includes loving yourself.

I must admit that I do all of those above apart from keeping a journal.  And it does make a difference.  I feel confidence and I can attract anything that I want to my life.  That feels great.  I will also share with you that as from today I am going to be living more healthy.  I need to up my exercise.   I’m going to be lifting more weights and tone up for summer!!

This quotes says it all from Robert Morley – always remember this 🙂  Have a great day and I’ll see you tomorrow.




Understanding the Law of Attraction

Hi everyone,

Thanks for taking the time to look at my posts.  After yesterday’s post I want to talk today about understanding the Law of Attraction.

Another gentleman I want to introduce to you is Mr Bob Proctor.  He is changing the lives of people through his work.  Have a read of this, this is taken from this website

Bob Proctor is a world-renowned speaker, motivational coach, author of bestselling books, as well as a Law of Attraction teacher. Bob Proctor has an international reputation for getting the very best out of both people and businesses. Bob’s goal is to help others learn what it takes to meet their goal and show them how to tap into their endless potential.

Bob has developed many strategies over the years which has helped him to show others how they can succeed in things that they previously thought they couldn’t, whilst helping people to develop the skills that they need to achieve success.

Who Is Bob Proctor?

Bob’s early life was not as successful as you may think, which could be why Bob has dedicated his life to teaching others how to reach their goals and unlock their full potential.

Bob Proctor was born in Ontario, Canada in 1934 and eventually became a high school dropout, changing from one dead-end job to another, whilst struggling to find success.

As this was happening, a friend of Bob’s gave him “Think and Grow Rich” by Napoleon Hill, a self-help book that had helped thousands to succeed.

Bob’s life changed after this and he started his own company, offering office cleaning services, earning more than $100,000 in his first year. Bob then joined the Nightingale-Conant organization and learned from personal development expert, Earl Nightingale.

After achieving a high ranking position in the company, Bob then decided it was time to start teaching and sharing his own ideas on success and potential. Bob started to offer motivational speeches and seminars across the United States and Canada, in the 1970’s, and his empire grew from there.

Bob Proctor is now widely viewed as one of the world’s foremost coaching experts and a leading expert on the topic of getting rich. He has released many programs that provide concrete information on how people can tap into their full potential in different aspects of their life.

Bob is well known for his ability to fill his listeners with hope and confidence, spurring them on to new heights of achievements. Bob now has many products, books, teachings and seminars available.

Bob Proctor and the Law of Attraction

Bob Proctor is known as one of the world’s biggest Law of Attraction experts. Bob is a great believer in the Law and still teaches others how to use it to this day. From teaching others how the Law of Attraction works, to talking about the Law of Vibration, Bob shares his knowledge on this topic, telling others how it can work for them.

Bob believes that when you feel and visualize what you want in your life, you will attract it. He has stated that many successful people did not know how they would achieve success, but that they would achieve it.

Bob also says that even if you do not understand the Law of Attraction you should not reject it, as it is always working and you will always attract ‘the way’. The Law of Attraction also plays a big part in Bob’s seminars and teachings, dating back from the 1970’s all the way to today’s teachings.

Bob Proctor in The Secret

Bob’s teachings and beliefs with the Law of Attraction caught the attention of Rhonda Byrne, author of ‘The Secret’ book, and also director of ‘The Secret’ movie. Bob was asked by Rhonda to feature in both of these.

In ‘The Secret’, Bob Proctor is one of the featured expert teachers within the book. There are many quotes from Bob used in this self-help book and different teachings of the Law of Attraction are discussed.

In Bob’s opening quote from the book, he talks about what The Secret actually is. He believes that we all work with one infinite power and guide ourselves by the same law. The Law is attraction, and what we are thinking and holding in our mind, we are attracting.

He also speaks about how we can all switch negative thoughts to positive ones, which will then help us to actually start feeling good and attracting the good things we want.

Bob Proctor was featured as a teacher in the documentary of ‘The Secret’. Where the same quotes are spoken about again and in more detail. Bob talks about attracting what you are thinking and how you can succeed in life and get what you want through using ‘The Secret’.

This is the link to The Secret – Full Movie

Have a look at this video from Bob Proctor, he is one of the world’s leading Law of Attraction experts.

Enjoy and I’ll see you tomorrow

Change Your Life

I know I’ve said it before in previous posts, but in case you missed it, using the Law of Attraction can change your life.  It has changed mine and continues to do so on a daily basis.

Even if you were to look it up on the internet you can see so many stories of how many people have changed their lives by doing this.  

Are you fed up of your daily routine? Would you like more money? Do you want to meet the love of your life? All these are possible by using the technique of Law of Attraction.  

I was one of those people that didn’t believe it to begin with.  The more I read about it and I watched videos on YouTube the more I started to question my belief.  Can all these people be making it up?  There are a few celebrities that have used this to become famous and make lots of money.

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I enjoy listening to Jake Ducey every day and he is living proof that this works. His energy levels are so high and his enthusiasm is contagious!  Have a look at one of his recent videos, I can guarantee you that you will be amazed.

Have a listen and come back to me and tell me what you think.



Have a great day and I’ll see you tomorrow….







My Mental Health

Hi everyone,

How do you feel today after yesterday’s post?

It’s funny really, but today I feel quite bad. I’m just about to fly out for the weekend and I feel bad that I’m not home for my son. He’s a twenty year old young man and is not bothered that I’m not there but with it being Mother’s Day on Sunday, I feel really bad. We have a great relationship and I can talk to him about anything, he’s like my best friend.

However, I’ve seen this article on the internet, have a read of this:

Anyone can suffer from mental or emotional health problems—and over a lifetime most of us will. This year alone, about one in five of us will suffer from a diagnosable mental disorder. Yet, despite how common mental health problems are, many of us make no effort to improve our situation.

We ignore the emotional messages that tell us something is wrong and try toughing it out by distracting ourselves or self-medicating with alcohol, drugs, or self-destructive behaviors. We bottle up our problems in the hope that others won’t notice. We hope that our situation will eventually improve on its own. Or we simply give up—telling ourselves this is “just the way we are.”

The good news is: you don’t have to feel bad. There are practices you can adopt to elevate your mood, become more resilient, and enjoy life more. But just as it requires effort to build and maintain physical health, so it is with mental health. We have to work harder these days to ensure strong mental health, simply because there are so many ways that life takes a toll on our emotional well-being.

With this in mind, I shall enjoy the weekend with my boyfriend and look forward to seeing my son next weekend. However, I’m determined not to put my life on hold as some people expect me too. Life is very short and I intend to enjoy it as much as I can.

Have a great evening and I shall catch up with you tomorrow.