Our Mental Health

Hi everyone,

Today I’m going to talk about our mental health.  We hear so much about mental health these days and it’s good that people are talking more about it.  In the past people have been ashamed and suffered in silence.  

I know that during my marriage, we both never communicated very well with each other over the years and we became distant.  We grew apart and that was it.  Today, in my new relationship I make sure that if something is bothering me, I will tell him straight away.  It makes such a difference.  I don’t bottle feelings up, I am able to share anything I have with him and it just feels so good.  Today I feel very lucky.  

I’ve taken this article from the https://www.mentalhealth.org.uk/ website.  I took part in the survey that they have on the site and apparently my mental health is above average!  As I’ve got older, I do feel more confident and able to speak my mind.

Take a look at the tips below on how to look after your mental health.

It’s important to take care of yourself and get the most from life. Below are 10 practical ways to look after your mental health. Making simple changes to how you live doesn’t need to cost a fortune or take up loads of time. Anyone can follow this advice. Why not start today?

  1. Talk about your feelings

Talking about your feelings can help you stay in good mental health and deal with times when you feel troubled.

  1. Keep active

Regular exercise can boost your self-esteem and can help you concentrate, sleep, and look and feel better. Exercise keeps the brain and your other vital organs healthy, and is also a significant benefit towards improving your mental health.

  1. Eat well

Your brain needs a mix of nutrients in order to stay healthy and function well, just like the other organs in your body. A diet that’s good for your physical health is also good for your mental health.

  1. Drink sensibly

We often drink alcohol to change our mood. Some people drink to deal with fear or loneliness, but the effect is only temporary.

When the drink wears off, you feel worse because of the way the alcohol has affected your brain and the rest of your body. Drinking is not a good way to manage difficult feelings.

  1. Keep in touch

There’s nothing better than catching up with someone face to face, but that’s not always possible. You can also give them a call, drop them a note, or chat to them online instead. Keep the lines of communication open: it’s good for you!

  1. Ask for help

None of us are superhuman. We all sometimes get tired or overwhelmed by how we feel or when things don’t go to plan.

If things are getting too much for you and you feel you can’t cope, ask for help. Your family or friends may be able to offer practical help or a listening ear.

  1. Take a break

A change of scene or a change of pace is good for your mental health.

It could be a five-minute pause from cleaning your kitchen, a half-hour lunch break at work, or a weekend exploring somewhere new. A few minutes can be enough to de-stress you. Give yourself some ‘me time’.

  1. Do something you’re good at

What do you love doing? What activities can you lose yourself in? What did you love doing in the past?

Enjoying yourself can help beat stress. Doing an activity you enjoy probably means you’re good at it, and achieving something boosts your self-esteem

  1. Accept who you are

We’re all different. It’s much healthier to accept that you’re unique than to wish you were more like someone else. Feeling good about yourself boosts your confidence to learn new skills, visit new places and make new friends. Good self-esteem helps you cope when life takes a difficult turn.

  1. Care for others

‘Friends are really important… We help each other whenever we can, so it’s a two-way street, and supporting them uplifts me.’

Caring for others is often an important part of keeping up relationships with people close to you. It can even bring you closer together.

These are great tips for keeping your mind and body healthy.  Remember is you suffer with any mental health issue it’s important to speak to someone you trust, maybe a family member, GP, someone at work/school.   Don’t keep anything bottled up.  Feelings are always better shared, the burden is offloaded and it’s good to talk to others.

I hope you enjoyed the article today, and remember, drop me a line if you have any questions or to let me know how you’re getting on.

I’ve added this clip here, listening to these people share their stories is truly amazing.

See you tomorrow 

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